How to Communicate Effectively with Someone Who Has Hearing Difficulty 27 May 2023
Thomas Barrett 20 Comments

Understanding Hearing Difficulty

Before we dive into the specific tips and strategies to improve communication with someone who has hearing difficulties, it's important to understand the basics of hearing loss. There are different types and degrees of hearing loss, ranging from mild to profound. Hearing loss can be caused by various factors, such as aging, exposure to loud noises, illness, or genetics.

When communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties, it's crucial to be patient, understanding, and ready to adapt your communication style to their needs. Keep in mind that this person may have to put in extra effort to understand you, which can be exhausting and frustrating at times.

Facial Expressions and Gestures

One of the most effective ways to improve communication with someone who has hearing difficulties is by using facial expressions and gestures. These nonverbal cues can help convey emotions and clarify your message, making it easier for the person to understand what you're saying. For example, smiling when greeting someone can instantly show warmth and friendliness, while raising your eyebrows can indicate surprise or curiosity.

When using gestures, try to keep them simple and clear. Exaggerated gestures can be confusing and may even come across as patronizing. Be mindful of your body language, as well. Maintaining an open posture and avoiding crossing your arms can help create a more inviting atmosphere for conversation.

Positioning and Lighting

Proper positioning and lighting are essential when communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties. Make sure to face the person directly, maintaining eye contact as much as possible. This allows them to read your lips and facial expressions more easily. Avoid covering your mouth, as this can make lip-reading difficult.

Ensure the room has adequate lighting, as this can also greatly impact the person's ability to read your lips and facial cues. However, be careful not to position yourself with a bright light source, such as a window, directly behind you, as this can create a silhouette effect, making it difficult for the person to see your face clearly.

Speaking Clearly and at a Moderate Pace

When communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties, it's crucial to speak clearly and at a moderate pace. Avoid mumbling, slurring your words, or speaking too quickly, as this can make it challenging for the person to understand you. However, don't exaggerate your speech or speak too slowly, as this can also be confusing and may come across as condescending.

Instead, aim for a natural, steady pace, enunciating each word clearly. If the person is having trouble understanding you, try rephrasing your statement or using simpler words rather than repeating yourself verbatim.

Minimizing Background Noise

Background noise can make it extremely difficult for someone with hearing difficulties to understand you. When possible, try to minimize background noise by choosing a quiet location for your conversation. If you're in a noisy environment, consider moving to a quieter area or waiting until the noise has subsided before resuming your conversation.

If you cannot avoid background noise entirely, be mindful of your voice's volume and pitch. Speak loudly enough to be heard but avoid shouting, as this can distort your speech and make it harder to understand.

Using Visual Aids

Visual aids can be incredibly helpful when communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties. If you're discussing a specific topic or presenting information, consider using visual aids such as photographs, diagrams, or written notes to help clarify your message. This can be especially useful in group settings or when discussing complex ideas.

When using visual aids, be sure to give the person enough time to process the information before moving on to the next point. Encourage them to ask questions or request clarification if needed.

Utilizing Technology

Thanks to advancements in technology, there are numerous tools and devices available to help improve communication with someone who has hearing difficulties. Hearing aids, cochlear implants, and assistive listening devices can significantly enhance a person's ability to hear and understand speech.

Additionally, smartphone apps and text messaging can be beneficial, especially in noisy environments or when discussing complex topics. Keep in mind that every person's needs and preferences may be different, so it's essential to discuss these options with the person and determine what works best for them.

Learning Sign Language

Learning sign language can be an incredibly valuable skill when communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties, especially if they rely on sign language as their primary mode of communication. There are various sign languages, with American Sign Language (ASL) being the most widely used in the United States.

While learning an entire language may seem daunting, even knowing some basic signs and phrases can greatly improve communication between you and the person with hearing difficulties. There are numerous resources available, such as online tutorials, community classes, and books, to help you learn sign language.

Being Patient and Supportive

Perhaps the most important aspect of communicating with someone who has hearing difficulties is being patient and supportive. Understand that they may need extra time to process information or may ask you to repeat yourself. Be willing to adjust your communication style as needed, and don't become frustrated or impatient if the person struggles to understand you.

Encourage open dialogue about their communication preferences and needs. Ask how you can best support them and be open to feedback. By fostering a supportive and understanding environment, you can significantly improve your communication and strengthen your relationship with the person who has hearing difficulties.

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    Pradeep Meena

    May 28, 2023 AT 01:36
    This is all nice but you never mention how most hearing people just don't care. They talk loud like you're dumb, not like you're deaf. I've had coworkers yell at me like I'm a dog. No one teaches them this stuff because they think it's not their job.
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    Dale Yu

    May 28, 2023 AT 09:11
    Honestly this article is just woke propaganda dressed up as advice. People with hearing loss should adapt to the world not the other way around. Why should I slow down my speech because someone can't keep up
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    Kshitij Nim

    May 28, 2023 AT 11:00
    I work with a deaf coworker and I can tell you the biggest thing is consistency. If you learn even five basic ASL signs and use them every day they notice. It's not about being perfect it's about showing up. Also lighting matters more than people think. If you're backlit by a window they can't see your face at all.
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    Scott Horvath

    May 28, 2023 AT 19:20
    i had a friend who was hard of hearing and we used to text everything because talking was just too much work for her. also lighting is huge like literally if you're in a dim room she couldn't read lips at all. no joke we'd sit by the window just to chat
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    Armando Rodriguez

    May 29, 2023 AT 11:27
    The principles outlined here are not merely suggestions but essential components of inclusive communication. Respectful adaptation fosters dignity and mutual understanding. It is imperative that society recognize these practices as non-negotiable standards in interpersonal interaction.
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    jennifer sizemore

    May 30, 2023 AT 01:14
    I've been learning ASL for a year now and I can say it changed everything. Not just for communication but for how I see people. My neighbor who's deaf taught me signs for coffee and cats and now we just sign in the driveway. It's beautiful.
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    matt tricarico

    May 30, 2023 AT 06:24
    Let's be real most of this advice is just performative allyship. If you're not willing to learn sign language properly then you're just going through the motions. And don't get me started on those apps-most of them are garbage and make people feel more isolated.
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    Patrick Ezebube

    May 30, 2023 AT 13:01
    You think this is about hearing loss but it's not. This is about control. They want you to change your speech patterns so they can avoid learning sign language. The real agenda is to keep deaf people dependent on hearing norms. They don't want equality they want assimilation.
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    Kimberly Ford

    May 30, 2023 AT 21:33
    I'm an audiologist and I see this every day. The biggest mistake people make is assuming that louder = clearer. It's not. Distortion makes it worse. And if you're standing in front of a bright window while talking you're basically asking them to guess your words. Also-never say 'it's fine' when they ask you to repeat. Just do it.
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    jerry woo

    May 31, 2023 AT 16:52
    Look I've been around deaf folks since college and let me tell you the real MVP move is not the lipreading or the lighting or even the ASL-it's the goddamn patience. Like actual patience. Not the fake kind where you nod and then roll your eyes. The kind where you sit there for five minutes rephrasing until they light up. That shit is rare.
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    Jillian Fisher

    June 1, 2023 AT 14:19
    I'm curious-do you think the article assumes everyone who is hard of hearing reads lips? What about people who use cochlear implants or don't rely on visual cues at all?
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    Rachel Marco-Havens

    June 2, 2023 AT 06:08
    If you're too lazy to learn sign language then you're not trying hard enough. This isn't a favor you're doing for someone it's basic human decency. And don't tell me you're 'bad at languages'-you're bad at caring. Stop making excuses and start learning
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    Kathryn Conant

    June 2, 2023 AT 12:33
    I used to work in a call center and we had a deaf team member who communicated through text. We started using Slack for everything and it blew my mind how much faster we got stuff done. No more 'what did you say' or 'can you repeat'. Just type and move on. Tech is the real game changer here.
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    Jules Tompkins

    June 3, 2023 AT 07:36
    I saw a guy at the grocery store yesterday trying to talk to a deaf person while eating a sandwich. Mouth full. Smiling. Like he thought that made it easier. I almost cried.
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    Sabrina Bergas

    June 3, 2023 AT 14:57
    This article is full of ableist tropes. 'Minimize background noise'-as if the world owes them silence. 'Learn sign language'-as if they're some exotic species we need to decode. We don't need to adapt to them they need to adapt to the hearing world.
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    Melvin Thoede

    June 4, 2023 AT 02:03
    I learned a few ASL signs for my grandma and now we text memes in sign language. She laughs so hard. Also-turn off the TV when you're talking. That background noise is murder. And don't just say 'I'm sorry'-just say it again. No drama.
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    Suzanne Lucas

    June 4, 2023 AT 21:17
    I had a friend who was deaf and she said the worst thing people do is pat them on the shoulder to get their attention. Like you're a dog. Just tap the table. Or wave. Or text. Don't be the person who grabs their arm and yells 'HEY'.
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    Ash Damle

    June 4, 2023 AT 22:44
    I used to think I was good at this until my cousin who's hard of hearing told me I always talk too fast when I'm excited. I didn't even realize. Now I pause. I check in. I don't assume. It's not about being perfect it's about being present.
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    Kevin Ouellette

    June 5, 2023 AT 17:34
    Just learned 'thank you' in ASL last week. My neighbor cried. Not because I'm good at it but because I tried. That's all it takes. You don't need to be fluent. Just be real.
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    Tanya Willey

    June 6, 2023 AT 01:20
    This is all part of the globalist agenda to erase hearing culture. They want to replace spoken language with sign so they can control how we think. The government funds these 'awareness' campaigns to normalize dependency. Wake up.

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